I was hoping for a moment straight out of a romantic comedy, where he would call me the love of his life, too. “You know, it just hit me: If we end up staying together, you will go down in history as the great love of my life,” I told him one night after four years of dating.

It was of our babysitter, Simone, sans clothes - and it was dated 2011, a year before David and I had even gotten married. But the oldest video on David’s computer wasn’t one of Leo splashing in the bathtub. The computer had once belonged to me, and I wanted to make sure I hadn’t left any important videos - such as Leo’s birth - behind. So when David accidentally left his laptop at my place, I didn’t think anything of turning it on. Though he had moved out of our Los Angeles apartment, David would visit frequently as we tried to keep things as normal as possible for our 4-year-old son, Leo. Three months after my husband, David, and I decided to end our marriage in 2013, I was impressed with how successfully our co-parenting strategy was working. The 47-year-old Weedman - author of Miss Fortune: Fresh Perspectives on Having It All From Someone Who Is Not Okay (Plume, out now) - told New York Post’s Lindsay Putnam how her marriage fell apart. The actress had been with her husband, David*, for 11 years when she found evidence of his affair with their teenage babysitter. Gwen Stefani and Jennifer Garner are just the latest crop of famous women whose husbands were allegedly involved with their nannies - and it’s a cliche Lauren Weedman knows all too well.

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